How I got free from porn addiction

Don’t give up the fight Lately, my heart has really gone out to all the men in this world struggling with pornography that honestly believes that they can’t be free. They’ve dealt with it for so many years, they’ve fought so hard and failed themselves so many times that they have finally accepted that it’s […]

Is God mean? Understanding God’s actions in the Old Testament

It makes me sad when I see such a misunderstanding of God in the Old Testament. I often see people comparing God in the Old Testament to Jesus in the New Testament as though God was this mean and abusive jerk whom Jesus had to step in to try to calm down. They compare and […]

Me Too (I Will)

#IWill We live in a society that celebrates the objectification of women (and men). No one would say that, but actions speak louder than words. For instance, we celebrate pornography, and not just secretly behind closed doors anymore, but brazenly and out in the open. Movies, books, and magazines have brought media like 50 Shades […]

Does marriage ruin sex?

“Marriage ruins sex” seems to have become a common mantra in pop culture. Seeing as how the overwhelming majority of those peddling this ideal are unmarried I’d like to speak up and add my voice to the mix, as a married man, and let you know that marriage most certainly does not ruin sex. I was […]

The truth about pornography, masturbation, and fornication… Despite what the psychologist say.

Not long ago I made a status on my personal fb page that said, “Pornography, masturbation and fornication are stripping young people of the authority and power to lead this generation in holiness. And it’s partially due to the lie that it’s just expected of young people to deal with those issues. I don’t care […]

Get Real! Confessions of a local church.

I recently preached a sermon in my hometown of Benton, AR entitled “Get Real!” (The sermon from that morning is available for free download here. divine-romance.com/resources) In the sermon I basically shared all my “deepest darkest secrets” about my past and how God taught me to get free of my addictions through the power of public […]